"When I look at your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is man that you are mindful of him, and the son of man that you care for him?" Psalm 8:3-4
Tomorrow I celebrate being married to my bride for 11 years. In ways it's hard to believe. We have packed in so much in that time. Three states, five houses and four beautiful girls. There have been seasons of joy and times of great difficulty. We have seen God work through difficult circumstances and seen how He's grown us through it.
I'm so glad that after 11 years, my wife brings out in me the desire to be a better man for her. She is my faithful support, sounding board, companion and prayer warrior. I've seen her be open to what God has for her and follow his leading. I've seen her influence on others grow. I'm so proud of her.
I've seen how marriage can humble me, propel me to my knees and cause me to be dependent on God's work in me to be the husband he desires me to be. Because in myself I'm selfish, arrogant and proud. I've seen the benefit of seeing marriage not as a vehicle for happiness, although there is incredible joy in it, but holiness, as Gary Thomas puts it in "Sacred Marriage"(which I highly recommend).
Marriage has been an incredible personal reminder of Christ's intense love for his bride - the church. Knowing that he is always faithful, ever true. That he is patient and keeps his promises. That his grace and forgiveness covers all her sins, my sin. That he gave himself sacrificially. That he desires me to love my wife the same way, laying aside my rights to serve her. That my marriage should be a living declaration of Christ's relationship to his bride. Knowing what Christ has done for me, what would limit me from expressing the same to my wife? Selfishness. Complacency. Pride. I need God. It's impossible in myself to love like that, yet through him all things are possible. If he is the one who is at work in my life, then his fragrance is going to flow out of my life. His presence will be evident. My wife will experience his love through me with the love that he has given me. I can't take credit for it, but I can take blame if it doesn't happen.
Whether single or married, experiencing great joy or difficulty, it's about knowing the love of Christ and responding in surrender,a lifestyle of worship. He is our greatest need at any and every point in life. It's not always easy, but there is incredible joy in it.
So after eleven years of this part of my journey...
To my beautiful bride...Happy 11th Anniversary. I love you.
To my beautiful Lord...Thank you. I love you.
This past weekend I had the opportunity to speak on Matthew 6:13, where Jesus taught us to pray "lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil". What an important prayer to have on our lips! Because through every trial comes a temptation. But not only through trial, good times as well. I am so glad to know the promise that God sets those restrictions on the intensity of the temptation. 1 Corinthians 10:13 says "The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so you can endure."
I am reminded of this in a story told by Ravi Zacharias, a Christian apologist. He tells the story how in Vietnam in 1971 he met a young Christian man named Hien Pham. Hien served as a volunteer translator for the American military as well as for missionaries. During that time Hien and Ravi became close friends. They parted ways four years later after their experiences in Vietnam. Ravi hadn't heard from Hien again until an unexpected phone call in 1988.
In that phone call, Ravi heard the shocking things that had happened to Hien since the fall of Vietnam. I quote Ravi below:
"Shortly after Vietnam fell to the Communists, Hien was arrested. Accused of aiding and abetting the Americans he was in and out of prison for several years. During on long jail term, the sole purpose of his jailers was to indoctrinate him against the West-and especially against democratic ideals and the Christian faith. He was cut off from reading anything in English and restriced to communist propaganda in French and Vietnamese. This daily overdose of the writings of Marx and Engels began to take its toll on him. One of the books he was given to read pictured the communist man as a bird in the ironclad cage of capitalism, throwing itself against the bars of "capitalist oppression" and bloodying itself in the process. Yet still it continued to struggle in its quest for freedom.
Hien began to buckle under the onslaught. Maybe, he thought, I have been lied to. Maybe God does not exist. Maybe my whole life has been governed by lies. Maybe the West has deceived me. The more he thought, the more he moved toward a decision. Finally, he made up his mind. He determined that when he awakened the next day, he would not pray anymore or even think of his Christian faith again.
One of my favorite Bible teachers today is James MacDonald from Harvest Bible Chapel outside Chicago. He has a great way of communicating in a no nonsense, straight forward, non-apologetic, biblical sort of way. I respect that. I aim to be that kind of man. He has a great radio ministry called Walk In The Word, which can also heard through podcast. I highly recommend it! Recently James was diagnosed with prostate cancer. His courage, faith and testimony through this and his treatments is such an example to me.
I just saw my daughter's papers that she wrote for school. They cracked me up. Spelling and grammar is as she wrote it:
Martin Luther King Jr is special because: "he said that no matter what your skin color is you can all go to school together. No matter what your skin color is you can all eat together. No matter what your skin color is you can all play together. No matter what your skin color is you can all watch TV together."
Abraham Lincoln was: "the presidet. He like to learn every day. He was nice. He got shot and dide. He was tall. He was the 16 presidet. His mom dide. He was cool."
What will history, or a future 7 year old, say about you?
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